RESTORE

This chapter from the BFG Handbook (Christian Edition of the Tao Te Ching) presents the gospel through a new "Expression" of God’s Love to RESTORE the Truth.

Chapter 77 from the BFG Handbook (Christian Edition of the Tao Te Ching) presents the gospel through a new “Expression” of God’s Love to RESTORE people to the Truth.

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Chapter 77: Divine Balance

 

The God of Heaven is like drawing a bow 1
The top end bends down to a lower position 
The bottom end bends up to a higher position 
Reduce the draw if it is too much 2
Add to the draw if it is too little 

The Heavenly Way of God 2 
Reduces from what is too much  
In order to add to what is too little 

The way of people is different 3
They reduce from what is too little 
In order to add to what is too much 

Who can offer their excess to serve the world? 4 
Only those who have the Spirit of God 

Therefore, they fulfill their purpose without recognition 5
Achieve without taking credit 
And do not wish to glorify their good works

 

Scripture behind each line
1
“The God of Heaven is like drawing a bow”
Luke 14:8-11
2
“Reduce the draw if it is too much”
1 Samuel 2:7-8Proverbs 13:72 Corinthians 8:9
3
“The way of people is different”
James 2:1-5Proverbs 22:16Proverbs 28:27
5
“Therefore, they fulfill their purpose without recognition”
John 8:54-55.

The Bow in the Hands of God

Explains these lines

“The God of Heaven is like drawing a bow

The top end bends down to a lower position

The bottom end bends up to a higher position

Reduce the draw if it is too much

Add to the draw if it is too little”

Chapter 77 of the Tao Te Ching introduces the concept of divine balance, comparing God’s way to the act of drawing a bow—where the tension and balance between opposing forces are carefully regulated. From a Christian perspective, this chapter underscores the principles of humility, generosity, and selflessness, which align with key Christian teachings about God’s justice and mercy, as well as the self-sacrificial nature of Jesus Christ.

The passage begins by describing the God of Heaven as someone who adjusts the bow, with the top end bending down and the bottom end bending up. This suggests that God’s divine balance is about elevating what is low and humbling what is high. In Christian terms, this reflects God’s ability to reverse earthly values, as seen in the Beatitudes where Jesus says, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 5:3) and “The last will be first, and the first will be last” (Matthew 20:16). God’s kingdom operates on principles that often invert worldly expectations—exalting the humble and bringing down the proud. This is echoed in the story of Mary, the mother of Jesus, who proclaimed, “He has brought down rulers from their thrones but has lifted up the humble” (Luke 1:52).

The picture is worth slowing down for. An archer does not yank the string as hard as possible. The chapter says, “Reduce the draw if it is too much” and “Add to the draw if it is too little.” A good archer adjusts with care until the tension is just right. That is how God works in our lives: not carelessly and not by force, but with a steady hand that knows exactly what each of us needs.

“The LORD makes poor and makes rich; he brings low; he also exalts. He raises up the poor from the dust; he lifts the needy from the ash heap to make them sit with princes and inherit a seat of honor…”
1 Samuel 2:7-8NRSVue

Hannah prayed these words after years of being looked down on. God had lifted her, the “bottom end” of the bow. Jesus taught the same balance at a dinner, as He watched guests grab the best seats. His advice was simple: start low, and let the host raise you up.

“For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
Luke 14:11NRSVue

Above all, Jesus lived this line. He is the top end that bent down, coming from heaven to our lowest places so that we could be raised up with Him. And a bow is not drawn to hurt anyone; it is drawn so the arrow can fly. God humbles the proud and lifts the lowly so that all of us can reach the goal He made us for.

The Church Teaches

“…the Canticle of Mary… is the song both of the Mother of God and of the Church… the song of the ‘poor’ whose hope is met by the fulfillment of the promises made to our ancestors…”Catechism 2619

“Christ’s whole life is a mystery of redemption… already in his Incarnation through which by becoming poor he enriches us with his poverty…”Catechism 517

For Our Lives Today

Think about your group of friends or coworkers. There is usually someone everyone listens to, and someone nobody hears. At work, the loud voice gets the credit while the quiet one does the real job. At school, one kid gets every invitation while another eats lunch alone. Chapter 77 says, “The top end bends down to a lower position” and “The bottom end bends up to a higher position.” In God’s eyes, nobody is stuck at the bottom. And if you are near the top, His invitation is to bend down, not to climb higher.

Try this today: Sit with, talk to or text the person in your circle who is usually left out, and really listen.


Taking From Too Much to Fill Too Little

Explains these lines

“The Heavenly Way of God

Reduces from what is too much

In order to add to what is too little”

The text continues with the notion that God’s way is to reduce what is too much and add to what is too little. This speaks to God’s justice, mercy, and provision. In Christian theology, this is exemplified by God’s grace, where He gives abundantly to those who are in need, and humbles those who have much but lack generosity. Jesus demonstrated this through acts of compassion, feeding the hungry, healing the sick, and offering forgiveness to sinners. The idea that God’s balance leads to fulfillment and restoration aligns with the Christian belief that God restores the broken, heals the wounded, and gives hope to the lost.

St. Paul shows the deepest meaning of these lines in the life of Jesus. Christ had everything, and He gave it away for us. He reduced from His own fullness to add to our emptiness. That is the Heavenly Way of God in a Person.

“For you know the generous act of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that by his poverty you might become rich.”
2 Corinthians 8:9NRSVue

Paul then applied it to a collection for poor believers. He did not ask anyone to become poor. He asked those with plenty to share with those in need, so that no one would be crushed. He even pointed back to the manna in the desert, when God made sure everyone had enough.

“…Whoever gathered much had nothing left over, and whoever gathered little had no lack.”
2 Corinthians 8:15ESV

Proverbs adds a warning about appearances: “One pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth” (Proverbs 13:7, ESV). God sees past the show. He knows where the real need is, and He invites us to join Him in filling it.

The Church Teaches

“The right to private property, acquired by work or received from others by inheritance or gift, does not do away with the original gift of the earth to the whole of mankind. The universal destination of goods remains primordial…”Catechism 2403

“Now is the time for a new ‘creativity’ in charity, not only by ensuring that help is effective but also by ‘getting close’ to those who suffer, so that the hand that helps is seen not as a humiliating handout but as a sharing between brothers and sisters.”Saint John Paul II, Novo Millennio Ineunte 50

For Our Lives Today

Look at your closet, your pantry or your phone. Most of us have too much of something: clothes we never wear, food that goes bad before we eat it, apps we never open. Meanwhile, a coworker is quietly skipping lunch to make rent, and a neighbor cannot afford new school shoes for the kids. Chapter 77 says the Heavenly Way of God “reduces from what is too much in order to add to what is too little.” Your extra is not an accident. It might be the answer to someone else’s prayer.

Try this today: Find one thing you have too much of, and give it to someone who needs it this week.


The Upside-Down Way of People

Explains these lines

“The way of people is different

They reduce from what is too little

In order to add to what is too much”

In contrast, the “way of people” is described as reducing from what is too little in order to add to what is too much. This human tendency often leads to inequality and injustice, where the rich are made richer while the poor are left in poverty. The Bible warns against such imbalances and calls for justice and fairness. James 2:1-5 speaks against showing favoritism to the wealthy while neglecting the poor, and Proverbs 22:16 warns, “Whoever oppresses the poor to increase his wealth and whoever gives to the rich—both come to poverty.” This imbalance is counter to the way of God, which seeks to uplift the lowly and provide for those in need.

These lines are not only about money. We often do the same thing with attention, praise and time. We pile likes on people who are already popular, laugh loudest at the boss’s jokes, and give our free hours to people who can help us. Meanwhile, the lonely, the slow and the struggling get whatever is left.

“Whoever gives to the poor will not want, but he who hides his eyes will get many a curse.”
Proverbs 28:27ESV

The key words are “close their eyes.” The way of people usually does not start with cruelty. It starts with not looking. We scroll past the hard story, cross the street, change the subject. St. James asks believers to look again, because God sees the poor very differently than the world does.

“Listen, my beloved brothers and sisters. Has not God chosen the poor in the world to be rich in faith and to be heirs of the kingdom that he has promised to those who love him?”
James 2:5NRSVue

Seeing is where change begins. Once we notice who is running low, we cannot go back to adding only to the top. That is the first step out of “the way of people” and into the Heavenly Way of God.

The Church Teaches

“There exist also sinful inequalities… These are in open contradiction of the Gospel: Their equal dignity as persons demands that we strive for fairer and more humane conditions.”Catechism 1938

“…the drama of hunger in the world calls Christians who pray sincerely to exercise responsibility toward their brethren, both in their personal behavior and in their solidarity with the human family.”Catechism 2831

For Our Lives Today

Picture a group chat. One friend posts good news and gets a flood of hearts and congratulations. Another friend writes that she is having a rough week, and the chat goes quiet. Nobody meant to ignore her. It just happened. That is what Chapter 77 describes: “They reduce from what is too little in order to add to what is too much.” It happens in families, at work and even at church. The person who needs the most often gets the least, simply because nobody looked.

Try this today: Reach out today to someone whose message or need was left unanswered, and give them your full attention.


Excess Offered by the Spirit

Explains these lines

“Who can offer their excess to serve the world?

Only those who have the Spirit of God”

The chapter then challenges those who have excess to offer it in service to the world. In Christian terms, this speaks to the call for believers to be generous and selfless, using their resources to bless others. Jesus emphasized this principle in the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37) and in His teachings about the kingdom of God. In John 14:10-12, Jesus encourages His followers to do even greater works than He did, showing that those who are filled with the Spirit of God are empowered to serve others sacrificially, giving without expecting anything in return. This spirit of generosity reflects the heart of Christ, who gave Himself completely for the sake of humanity.

Notice that the chapter does not ask, “Who is rich enough to help?” It asks who can offer their excess, and it answers, “Only those who have the Spirit of God.” Generosity is not mainly about how much we have. It is about who lives in us. Jesus Himself said His works came from the Father living in Him.

“Do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words that I say to you I do not speak on my own authority, but the Father who dwells in me does his works.”
John 14:10ESV

Fear tells us to hold on to everything in case we need it later. The Holy Spirit gives a deeper security, so we can open our hands. That is exactly what happened after Pentecost. The same disciples who once argued about who was the greatest began to share freely.

“Now the whole group of those who believed were of one heart and soul, and no one claimed private ownership of any possessions, but everything they owned was held in common.”
Acts 4:32NRSVue

Our excess may be small: a free evening, a knack for numbers, a car with an empty seat, a little extra patience on a hard day. When the Spirit leads, even small extras become a gift to the world.

The Church Teaches

“The grace of the Holy Spirit can confer true merit on us, by virtue of our adoptive filiation, and in accordance with God’s gratuitous justice. Charity is the principal source of merit in us before God.”Catechism 2026

“The consciousness that, in Christ, God has given himself for us, even unto death, must inspire us to live no longer for ourselves but for him, and, with him, for others.”Pope Benedict XVI, Deus Caritas Est 33

For Our Lives Today

You have more than you think. Maybe you are good with computers, and your grandmother cannot figure out her new phone. Maybe you have a quiet Saturday morning, and the single dad down the street could use an hour to himself. Maybe you have a guest room, a second winter coat or a gift for listening. Chapter 77 asks, “Who can offer their excess to serve the world?” The Holy Spirit does not ask you to give what you do not have. He helps you see what you do have, and who it is for.

Try this today: Ask the Holy Spirit, “What extra have You given me?” then offer it to one person this week.


Good Works Without the Spotlight

Explains these lines

“Therefore, they fulfill their purpose without recognition

Achieve without taking credit

And do not wish to glorify their good works”

Finally, the chapter points out that those who follow the divine balance fulfill their purpose without recognition, achieve without taking credit, and do not seek to glorify their good works. This echoes the teaching of Jesus in Matthew 6:1-4, where He warns against doing righteous acts for public approval. True followers of God act selflessly, with humility, and without the desire for glory. Jesus exemplified this through His life, especially in His sacrificial death on the cross, which was done not for His own glory, but for the salvation of humanity. As John 8:54-55 notes, Jesus did not seek His own glory but glorified the Father.

These three lines speak right into a world built on being seen. Today, good deeds can be filmed, posted and counted. There is nothing wrong with others seeing our good works; Jesus even said our light should shine. The real question is where the glory goes.

“In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.”
Matthew 5:16NRSVue

The chapter describes people who “fulfill their purpose without recognition.” They do the work God gave them whether anyone claps or not. John the Baptist lived this way. When the crowds began leaving him to follow Jesus, he was not jealous. He was glad.

“He must increase, but I must decrease.”
John 3:30NRSVue

There is real freedom here. When we no longer need the credit, we stop comparing, stop keeping score and stop feeling cheated when no one says thank you. Our Father sees in secret, and His notice is the only reward we truly need.

The Church Teaches

“…we ask that this name of God should be hallowed in us through our actions. For God’s name is blessed when we live well, but is blasphemed when we live wickedly.”St. Peter Chrysologus, quoted in Catechism 2814

“Merit is to be ascribed in the first place to the grace of God, and secondly to man’s collaboration. Man’s merit is due to God.”Catechism 2025

For Our Lives Today

You stayed late to fix a problem at work, and your manager thanked someone else in the meeting. You cleaned the whole kitchen, and nobody noticed. You helped a friend through a breakup, and later they seemed to forget it ever happened. It stings. Chapter 77 says those who have the Spirit of God “achieve without taking credit” and “do not wish to glorify their good works.” That does not mean pretending it does not hurt. It means handing the moment to God, who saw every bit of it and never forgets.

Try this today: The next time you are not thanked, quietly pray, “Father, this was for You,” and let it go.


Living the Chapter

From Chapter 77

The whole chapter, put into practice

In conclusion, Chapter 77 of the Tao Te Ching from a Christian perspective emphasizes divine balance—God’s justice, mercy, and provision—and the call for believers to live humbly, generously, and selflessly. The chapter invites Christians to reflect God’s nature in their actions by serving others without seeking recognition, embodying the principles of the kingdom of God. It challenges the world’s values of accumulation and self-promotion, instead promoting a life of humility, justice, and sacrificial love.

Chapter 77 gives us a simple way to check our lives. Where is there too much? Where is there too little? God’s way is to bend the high down and lift the low up, and He invites us to live the same way: in our spending, our time, our attention and our praise.

We cannot do it on our own. Only those who have the Spirit of God can offer their excess freely. So we ask for the Spirit, we look to Christ who became poor for us, and we give quietly, trusting that the Father sees. That is divine balance: a life that lifts others and leaves the glory with God.

“He has told you, O mortal, what is good, and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice and to love kindness and to walk humbly with your God?”
Micah 6:8NRSVue
The Church Teaches

“…within the community of believers there can never be room for a poverty that denies anyone what is needed for a dignified life.”Pope Benedict XVI, Deus Caritas Est 20

“…those who are oppressed by poverty are the object of a preferential love on the part of the Church…”Catechism 2448

For Our Lives Today

Try looking at your week the way an archer checks a bow. Is work pulling too hard while your family gets too little? Is your phone getting hours while prayer gets a few rushed minutes? Is there someone who has had too much of your criticism and too little of your encouragement? Chapter 77 says, “Reduce the draw if it is too much” and “Add to the draw if it is too little.” Small adjustments, made with God’s help, can bring your whole life back into balance.

Try this today: Tonight, name one thing to reduce and one thing to add this week, and ask God to help you keep both.

Chapter 77 in one lineGod bends the high down and lifts the low up, and those who have His Spirit give their extra to the world without needing the credit.



RENEWAL

The Trinitarian M.A.P. is the method for RENEWAL, where God’s Love shapes our MINDSET, Trust in the Son directs our AIM, and Faith in the Holy Spirit guides our PRACTICE.

This chapter offers a new “Method” for the New Evangelization to RENEW our hearts and minds through the Trinitarian M.A.P. Bring this chapter into your day with the BFG Companion App. Pick Chapter 77 and an area of your life, and get Guidance made for you.

1The bow in God’s hands“The God of Heaven is like drawing a bow”
2Lifting the low“The bottom end bends up to a higher position”
3Sharing the extra“Reduces from what is too much”
4Excess for the world“Who can offer their excess to serve the world?”
5No credit needed“Achieve without taking credit”
MINDSET
God’s Love shapes how we think

Renewal starts in the mind. Chapter 77 opens with a picture: “The God of Heaven is like drawing a bow.” When an archer draws, “The top end bends down to a lower position” and “The bottom end bends up to a higher position.” Both ends move toward the middle. That is how God’s love thinks. He does not admire the high and forget the low. Hannah sang it long ago: “He raises the poor from the dust” (1 Samuel 2:8). So we let God’s love reset how we see people, starting with the ones the world overlooks.

The chapter is honest about us: “The way of people is different.” We “reduce from what is too little in order to add to what is too much.” Think of how often we give our best attention to people who already have plenty of it, and how easy it is to want more when we already have enough. Jesus warns that “life does not consist in an abundance of possessions” (Luke 12:15). A renewed mind stops measuring life by what is piled up at the top, and starts noticing who is running low.

Try this: Today, notice one person who is running low on attention, help or kindness, and ask God, “How do You see them?”

1 Samuel 2:7-8NRSVue “The LORD makes poor and makes rich; he brings low; he also exalts. He raises up the poor from the dust…”

Luke 12:15NRSVue “…Be on your guard against all kinds of greed, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of possessions.”

More Scripture: Proverbs 11:1 · Luke 1:52-53

AIM
Trust in the Son directs where we look

A renewed mind needs a direction, and Chapter 77 points us to Christ, the One who bent down furthest of all. “The Heavenly Way of God reduces from what is too much in order to add to what is too little.” St. Paul shows us that way in a Person: “though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich” (2 Corinthians 8:9). Jesus did not hold on to heaven’s height. He came down to fill our emptiness. Trusting the Son means aiming our lives the way He aimed His: down toward need.

That changes what we aim for. Jesus watched guests rush for the best seats at a wedding feast and gave simple advice: take the lowest place, because “those who humble themselves will be exalted” (Luke 14:11). The chapter says, “Reduce the draw if it is too much.” Our aim does not have to be the top seat, the biggest title or the most followers. We aim at Christ, trust Him to lift us when the time is right, and leave room for others at the table.

Try this: In one conversation today, choose the “lower seat”: let someone else have the spotlight, the last word or the better spot.

2 Corinthians 8:9NRSVue “For you know the generous act of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that by his poverty you might become rich.”

Luke 14:11NRSVue “For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

More Scripture: Philippians 2:3 · Matthew 23:12

PRACTICE
Faith in the Holy Spirit guides how we live

Renewal becomes real in daily life, and Chapter 77 asks a direct question: “Who can offer their excess to serve the world?” Its answer: “Only those who have the Spirit of God.” On our own, we hold on to extra just in case. The Holy Spirit loosens our grip and makes us generous. After Pentecost, the first believers “shared everything they had” (Acts 4:32). Our extra may be money, but it may also be time, a skill, a spare seat in the car or a listening ear. The Spirit helps us see it and give it.

The chapter then shows how the Spirit-led give: “they fulfill their purpose without recognition,” they “achieve without taking credit,” and they “do not wish to glorify their good works.” Jesus said the same: “do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing” (Matthew 6:3). So we practice giving quietly: a bill paid without a name on it, a chore done before anyone asks, a kind word with no audience. No post, no thank-you needed. The Father who sees in secret is enough.

Try this: Do one good thing today that nobody will ever find out about, and offer it to God in a short prayer.

Acts 4:32NRSVue “Now the whole group of those who believed were of one heart and soul, and no one claimed private ownership of any possessions, but everything they owned was held in common.”

Matthew 6:3-4NRSVue “But when you give alms, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your alms may be done in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”

More Scripture: 2 Corinthians 9:7 · 1 Peter 4:10

In short: think humbly, aim at what is eternal, live by the Spirit. Let God’s love turn your eyes toward the low, aim with Christ who came down to fill what is lacking, and let the Spirit teach you to give your extra away without needing the credit.




RESPOND

Renewal brings the transformation of our spirit with ardor, empowering us to RESPOND to the call of holiness and make disciples of all nations. This encourages meaningful dialogue to embrace shared truths that transcend cultural and religious boundaries.

Respond · Go and Share
Go and Share: Responding as Missionary Apostles

Renewal does not end with us. When God brings a heart into balance, He sends it out to bring balance to the world around it. Chapter 77 says the Heavenly Way of God “reduces from what is too much in order to add to what is too little,” and then it asks, “Who can offer their excess to serve the world?” The answer is you, filled with His Spirit. You were given extra so that someone else would not go without.

Step 1
The Call
“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations… And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”Matthew 28:19-20 (NRSVue)
“…you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”Acts 1:8 (NRSVue)
Step 2
New Ardor, New Methods, New Expression

In 1983, Saint John Paul II called the Church to an evangelization that is “new in its ardor, new in its methods, new in its expression.” The Gospel never changes. The way we carry it must be alive for our time. Chapter 77 shows why: a world that keeps adding to the top and taking from the bottom needs fresh words about the God who lifts the low.

New in Ardor
The fire

Ardor is the fire of a heart that has been loved by God. People feel it before they hear a single word. Chapter 77 says only “those who have the Spirit of God” can offer their excess to serve the world. The fire that gives freely comes from Him, not from us.

New in Expression
The words

Use the words people use today: simple, honest and personal. Share your story, not a lecture. Chapter 77 uses the simple picture of a bow being drawn; use everyday pictures like that, so people can see God’s balance in their own lives.

New in Methods
The tools

Meet people where they are: on the phone in their hand. The BFG Handbook and the BFG Companion turn one conversation into a path to Christ and His Church. Chapter 77 says the Spirit-led “achieve without taking credit.” Our tools work the same way: they serve quietly so the glory goes to God.

Step 3
New in Ardor: The Fire
Pray first. Each morning ask the Holy Spirit, “Who do You want me to love today?”
Let joy show. A calm, joyful face says more than a perfect argument.
Give from your extra. The chapter says God “reduces from what is too much”; ask Him what you have too much of, and who is running low.
Love the person, not the debate. Listen twice as long as you speak.
Be brave and gentle. “Always be ready to make your defense to anyone who demands from you an accounting for the hope that is in you, yet do it with gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:15-16, NRSVue).
“Modern man listens more willingly to witnesses than to teachers.”Saint Paul VI
Step 4
New in Expression: Words for Our Time

Use the words people use today: simple, honest and personal. Share your story, not a lecture. Chapter 77 uses the simple picture of a bow being drawn; use everyday pictures like that, so people can see God’s balance in their own lives.

They say“I never have enough, no matter how much I make.”
You can say“I feel that too sometimes. A line I love says the way of people is to “add to what is too much.” Jesus says life is not about how much we have. Maybe enough starts with gratitude. Want to try that together?”
They say“Why should I give? I worked hard for what I have.”
You can say“You did, and that matters. I think of it this way: God gave me the strength to work, and the chapter I am reading says His way “reduces from what is too much in order to add to what is too little.” Giving is how I thank Him.”
They say“Nobody notices people like me.”
You can say“God does. There is a line about a bow being drawn: “The bottom end bends up to a higher position.” God has always lifted the ones the world overlooks. You are not invisible to Him.”
They say“The rich get richer and the poor get poorer. That is just how it is.”
You can say“It often looks that way. The BFG Handbook even says “the way of people is different” from God’s way. But we do not have to go along with it. Small choices to share really do lift people up.”
They say“If I do not post it, did it even happen?”
You can say“I get it. But some of the best things people do, nobody sees. The chapter says those led by the Spirit “achieve without taking credit.” God sees it, and honestly, it feels freer.”
They say“Church people just want my money.”
You can say“I understand why it can feel that way. What moved me is Jesus, who “though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor.” He gave first. That is the One I would love for you to meet.”
Your story in three parts
1Before

What my life was like before I really met Jesus.

2How

How He met me, and the moment things began to change.

3Now

What is different now, and the hope I carry. Like the chapter’s bow that “bends up to a higher position,” when did someone lift you up when you were low?

Step 5
New in Methods: The BFG Tools

Meet people where they are: on the phone in their hand. The BFG Handbook and the BFG Companion turn one conversation into a path to Christ and His Church. Chapter 77 says the Spirit-led “achieve without taking credit.” Our tools work the same way: they serve quietly so the glory goes to God.

BFG Handbook

Every chapter has its own song and is written in a language people of every faith can understand. A doorway for dialogue. Chapter 77, Divine Balance, helps anyone who feels overlooked, anyone weighed down by too much, and anyone wondering what to do with what they have.

Guidance

A friend shares a struggle. Together, pick a chapter and an area of life (start with Chapter 77 when someone feels they never have enough, or has more than they need and wants to share it well). In seconds: a reflection, the M.A.P., a saint, a prayer, Scripture, a song and a church nearby. Send it by email, PDF or a share link.

Ask BFG

Hard question? Ask it together. Answers are grounded in Catholic teaching, the saints and the BFG Handbook. Talk or type. Try asking together: “What do I have too much of, and who could use it?”

Pray My Rosary

Pray the Rosary with a guided voice, the daily mysteries and beads that follow along. Pray it with someone, even over the phone. In the Visitation, Mary sings that God “has lifted up the humble,” the same balance Chapter 77 describes; pray it in the Joyful Mysteries.

Church Finder

Catholic churches near anyone, with Mass and Confession times, directions, and one tap to add a time to the calendar. Every conversation can end at a church door. There Jesus, who became poor to make us rich, gives Himself to everyone alike at the same altar.

Reminders & My Journey

Morning, midday and evening prayer reminders, a daily streak and a steady prayer rhythm help a new believer keep going. A short pause to ask God where the balance is off today.

Free to start, no card needed. Read aloud in 48 languages.

Step 6
Why BFG Is Made for the New Evangelization
1
It meets people where they are. In their pocket, at any hour, in 48 languages.
2
It is personal. It speaks to their exact question, not a one-size pamphlet.
3
It is faithful. Grounded in Scripture, Catholic teaching and the lives of the saints.
4
It leads to the Church. Every Guidance ends with a real parish, with Mass and Confession times.
5
It opens doors. The Handbook gives people of every faith a common language for dialogue. Chapter 77’s questions about too much and too little touch everyone, from busy parents to tired students to anyone worried about money.
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It keeps walking with them. Prayer reminders, the Rosary and My Journey help faith grow day by day.
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It serves people; it does not replace them. Technology at the service of the human person. You are still the witness.
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It has guardrails and safeguards. Every answer is checked to stay true to Catholic teaching, and anyone in crisis is pointed to real help right away. Like those in Chapter 77 who “achieve without taking credit,” it points to God, not to itself.

One tool that walks with a person from the first question to the church door.

Step 7
Where Can I Go? Start Close, Then Go Far

Jesus sent His apostles first to Jerusalem, then to Judea and Samaria, then to the ends of the earth (Acts 1:8). Start where you are. Chapter 77 says God bends the bow so the low is raised, so start with the person near you who is running low today.

1 Home & Family First
  • Pray the Rosary together on Pray My Rosary.
  • Bless your children at bedtime.
  • Share a Guidance with a spouse or child who is struggling.
  • Find Sunday Mass times together with Church Finder.
  • At dinner, ask: “What do we have extra of this week, and who could we share it with?”
2 Friends
  • Text a verse from your Guidance.
  • Ask, “How can I pray for you?” and pray right then.
  • Invite a friend to Mass, then go for coffee.
  • Send the line: “The bottom end bends up to a higher position.”
3 School & Work
  • Be the calm, kind one.
  • Pray on your lunch break with a reminder.
  • Start a small chapter group that meets once a week. Begin with Chapter 77, Divine Balance.
  • Respect the rules: invite, never push.
4 Parties & Get-Togethers
  • Listen for the moment: “Things have been hard.”
  • Offer: “Can I send you something that helped me?”
  • Share the Chapter 77 song.
5 Meeting People One-on-One
  • Ask good questions and really listen.
  • Share your three-part story.
  • Open Ask BFG together when a question comes up.
  • When a friend feels overlooked, share that God’s way is to “add to what is too little,” and that He has not forgotten them.
6 Your Neighborhood & Parish
  • Visit the sick, the elderly and the lonely; pray the Rosary with them.
  • Serve at a food bank.
  • Welcome newcomers at Mass.
  • Join your parish evangelization team.
7 Local Businesses
  • Ask shops, cafés and offices to display a BFG card with a QR code.
  • Offer a short lunch talk on faith at work.
  • Business owners: offer the Companion to staff as a free gift, never a requirement.
8 Popular Places: Gyms, Parks, Coffee Shops & Game Days
  • Go where people already gather, and be the friendly one who listens.
  • Pray quietly for the people around you.
  • When a talk turns real, share a Guidance or the chapter song.
  • Wear or carry a simple sign of your faith, like a cross or a rosary, that can start a conversation.
  • At the gym, notice the newcomer nobody talks to; Chapter 77 says the bottom end bends up, so be the one who welcomes them.
9 Hold an Event
  • Host a Chapter 77 “Divine Balance” night, a Handbook chapter night, a Rosary night or an “Ask Anything” faith night.
  • Show the Companion on a big screen and let people try it.
  • We did this at our free conference, The New Evangelization in the Age of AI, at Christ Cathedral.
10 Online
  • Share a Guidance, a chapter song or a Scripture card. Try: “The Heavenly Way of God reduces from what is too much in order to add to what is too little.”
  • One post can reach someone you will never meet.
11 Other Countries
  • Join a parish or diocese mission trip.
  • The Companion speaks 48 languages, so you leave behind something that keeps speaking after you go home.
  • Chapter 77’s picture of a drawn bow is understood everywhere, a simple bridge to the God who lifts the lowly in every land.
12 Help Groups Doing the Work
  • Your parish ministries, the Legion of Mary, the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, Catholic Charities, prison, hospital and campus ministries, and mission groups.
  • Bring the BFG tools to their work.
Step 8
Your Mission M.A.P.
M
Mindset “I am sent.”God has loved me, so I can love others without fear. God’s love bends toward the low, and so can mine.
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Aim “One person this week.”Write down one name. Jesus always went to the one. Point them to Christ, who became poor to make us rich.
P
Practice “Pray, share, invite.”Pray for them by name each day, share one thing that helped you, and invite them one step closer. Give from your extra this week, quietly, and let God keep the credit.
Five steps of every conversation
ListenHear their story first.→LoveShow you care, whatever they believe.→ShareTell what God has done for you.→InviteOffer one next step.→Walk withStay with them after the first yes.
Step 9
Your 7-Day Mission Challenge
Step 10
Sent Out

You may never be thanked for what you give. Much of it may go unseen. But Chapter 77 says those who have the Spirit of God “fulfill their purpose without recognition.” Go and share your extra. Go and lift the low. Go quietly, and go with joy. The same Spirit who renewed you now sends you, to add to what is too little and to leave the glory with God.

“…And I said, ‘Here am I; send me!’”Isaiah 6:8 (NRSVue)
“How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”Romans 10:15 (NRSVue)
A prayer before you go

God of Heaven, who draws the bow with perfect balance, Holy Spirit, set my heart on fire. Jesus, send me to the one You love. Father, make me Your witness today. Amen.

NRSVue © 2021 National Council of the Churches of Christ in the USA. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. Scripture quotations marked ESV are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. ESV Text Edition: 2025. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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