RESTORE

This chapter from the BFG Handbook (Christian Edition of the Tao Te Ching) presents the gospel through a new "Expression" of God’s Love to RESTORE the Truth.

Chapter 74 from the BFG Handbook (Christian Edition of the Tao Te Ching) presents the gospel through a new “Expression” of God’s Love to RESTORE people to the Truth.

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Chapter 74: The Sovereign Judge

 

If people do not fear death 1
Why should you threaten them with death? 
If people live in constant fear of death 
And you can kill the evildoers 
Who would dare to do it? 

Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins 2
To take the place of God 
Is like trying to cut for the master carpenter 
If you try to cut for the master carpenter 
You will end up cutting off your hand

 

Scripture behind each line
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“If people do not fear death”
2 Timothy 4:6-8
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“Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins”
1 Corinthians 4:5Psalm 96:13Romans 14:1-12Matthew 7:1-5.

When Death Loses Its Threat

Explains these lines

“If people do not fear death

Why should you threaten them with death?”

Chapter 74 of the Tao Te Ching speaks to the limitations of human judgment and the ultimate sovereignty of God in matters of life and death. From a Christian perspective, this chapter offers insight into the nature of divine justice and the human tendency to take judgment into our own hands. The opening lines, “If people do not fear death, why should you threaten them with death?” highlight the futility of trying to control others through fear, especially the fear of death. In Christian thought, death is not something to be feared by those who have eternal life through Christ (2 Timothy 4:6-8), and Christ’s victory over death frees believers from the power of fear. Jesus taught that the ultimate fear should not be of physical death but of spiritual separation from God (Matthew 10:28). Thus, human threats of death are ineffective in the face of God’s eternal promise.

A threat only works on someone who is afraid. Take away the fear, and the threat loses its power. That is why the early Christians puzzled the Roman world. Rulers could take their homes, their freedom and even their lives, but they could not make them deny Christ. The Letter to the Hebrews explains where that freedom comes from.

“…that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil, and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery.”
Hebrews 2:14-15ESV

This does not mean Christians are careless about life or never feel afraid. Jesus Himself wept at the tomb of Lazarus, and in Gethsemane His sweat fell like drops of blood. Life is a precious gift, and grief is real. But fear is no longer the master. Because Jesus has gone through death and risen, death has become a door to Him, not the end of us. Paul could even say it with joy.

“For to me, living is Christ and dying is gain.”
Philippians 1:21NRSVue

So the chapter’s question is not cold or careless. It names a freedom only Christ can give: a heart so safe in God that threats, pressure and fear lose their grip on it. Whoever belongs to Him can face a hard diagnosis, a dangerous job or a hostile room and still say with St. Paul, “I have kept the faith.”

The Church Teaches

“The true shepherd is one who knows even the path that passes through the valley of death; one who walks with me even on the path of final solitude, where no one can accompany me, guiding me through…”Pope Benedict XVI, Spe Salvi 6

“Jesus, the Son of God, freely suffered death for us in complete and free submission to the will of God, his Father. By his death he has conquered death, and so opened the possibility of salvation to all men.”Catechism 1019

For Our Lives Today

The doctor’s office calls and says they want to go over your scan results in person. For the next three days your mind runs through every worst case at two in the morning. Or maybe it is a news story, a crash on your street, a friend your age who died without warning. The fear of death can sit quietly under a whole life. Chapter 74 asks a freeing question: “If people do not fear death…?” In Christ, you do not walk toward that door alone. The Good Shepherd has already walked it, and He knows the way through.

Try this today: When a fear about sickness or death comes up today, pray Psalm 23 slowly: “I will fear no evil, for you are with me.”


Fear Is a Poor Ruler

Explains these lines

“If people live in constant fear of death

And you can kill the evildoers

Who would dare to do it?”

The second part, “If people live in constant fear of death and you can kill the evildoers, who would dare to do it?” suggests that the use of death as a punishment is not only morally questionable but also misguided. In the Christian understanding, vengeance and judgment belong to God alone (Romans 12:19). This idea aligns with the biblical teaching that God, in His sovereignty, will judge the wicked in His time, and humans should not presume to act as judge, jury, and executioner. God’s judgment is just and righteous, and it is not for us to take His place. In Matthew 7:1-5, Jesus warns against judging others, emphasizing that we should focus on our own faults before pointing out the faults of others. The human tendency to play God leads to errors and injustice, as expressed in the metaphor about trying to cut for the master carpenter: “If you try to cut for the master carpenter, you will end up cutting off your hand.”

The chapter’s first half ends with a question that stops us: “Who would dare to do it?” Even if a ruler could frighten everyone and remove every wrongdoer, who is clean enough to hold that power over another life? When a crowd brought Jesus a woman caught in sin and wanted her stoned, He answered with the same kind of question.

“…Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.”
John 8:7ESV

One by one, the stones dropped. Jesus did not call sin harmless; He told the woman, “Go now and leave your life of sin.” But He refused to let anyone play executioner over a soul He came to save. God Himself does not delight in the destruction of even the worst sinner. He longs for them to turn and live.

“…As I live, says the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked but that the wicked turn from their ways and live…”
Ezekiel 33:11NRSVue

This is why the Church teaches so firmly that every life, even the life of someone who has done great evil, keeps its God-given dignity. Justice still matters, and people must be protected. But fear is a poor ruler, and only God holds the final word over a human life.

The Church Teaches

“…the Church teaches, in the light of the Gospel, that ‘the death penalty is inadmissible because it is an attack on the inviolability and dignity of the person’…”Catechism 2267

“Fear and resentment can easily lead to viewing punishment in a vindictive and even cruel way, rather than as part of a process of healing and reintegration into society.”Pope Francis, Fratelli Tutti 266

“Not even a murderer loses his personal dignity, and God himself pledges to guarantee this.”Saint John Paul II, Evangelium Vitae 9

The Church still teaches that just penalties are needed and that the innocent must be protected. What she rejects is the idea that any person is beyond God’s reach.

For Our Lives Today

Someone’s old post resurfaces, and by lunchtime the whole internet has decided what should happen to them: fired, banned, finished. Maybe they really did something wrong. But the comments go far past justice into something colder, and it is easy to join in with one more angry reply. Chapter 74 asks, “Who would dare to do it?” Who among us would want our worst moment to be the only thing anyone ever knew about us? Christians can call a wrong what it is and still refuse to join the mob.

Try this today: The next time you see an online pile-on, do not add to it; pray for the person at the center of it instead.


The Sovereign Judge

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“Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins”

At the center of the chapter stands its title line: “Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins.” This is good news, not a threat. A sovereign judge cannot be bribed, fooled or rushed. He sees what is hidden from every court on earth, including the motives no one else can read, as St. Paul wrote in one of this line’s own verses.

“…who will bring to light the things now hidden in darkness and will disclose the purposes of the heart. Then each one will receive commendation from God.”
1 Corinthians 4:5NRSVue

Notice the small word “our.” The chapter does not say “their sins.” Before God we all stand in the same line, and none of us could survive a judge without mercy. That is not the Judge we have. He takes our sins seriously, yet the psalm that sings of His justice also says this:

“He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities.”
Psalm 103:10ESV

So we can put down two heavy loads at once: the fear that evil will win in the end, and the pressure to make sure everyone gets what they deserve. Both belong to God. He will set things right, and His justice comes wrapped in grace.

The Church Teaches

“In the presence of Christ, who is Truth itself, the truth of each man’s relationship with God will be laid bare.”Catechism 1039

“The judgement of God is hope, both because it is justice and because it is grace.”Pope Benedict XVI, Spe Salvi 47

For Our Lives Today

A coworker takes credit for your project in front of the boss, and it works. Or a relative tells a twisted version of a family fight, and everyone believes it. You replay it on the drive home, rehearsing what you should have said. It is not fair, and part of you wants to make sure everyone knows the truth. Chapter 74 says, “Let the sovereign God be the judge.” God saw what really happened. You can speak up honestly when it is right to, and still leave the final verdict with Him.

Try this today: Write down the one unfair thing that keeps replaying in your mind, and pray over it: “Lord, You saw it. I leave it with You.”


Taking the Place of God

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“To take the place of God”

The chapter names the danger plainly: “To take the place of God.” It is the oldest temptation there is. In the garden the serpent promised, “you will be like God, knowing good and evil” (Genesis 3:5). Every time we sit in judgment over another person’s heart, we reach for that same fruit. St. James puts it in one sharp question.

“There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?”
James 4:12ESV

This does not mean we stop telling right from wrong. We can and must say that lying, cruelty or cheating is wrong. What we cannot do is read the whole of another person’s heart, weigh their wounds and history, and pronounce the final verdict. Only God knows all of that. St. Paul reminds us that every person answers to their own Master.

“Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.”
Romans 14:4ESV

More striking still, the One who does hold all judgment came first to save. The Father has entrusted judgment to the Son, and the Son came not to condemn the world but to save it (John 3:17). If the true Judge leads with mercy, we have no business leading with condemnation.

The Church Teaches

“…each person’s situation before God and their life in grace are mysteries which no one can fully know from without.”Pope Francis, Evangelii Gaudium 172

“…the Father has given ‘all judgement to the Son’. Yet the Son did not come to judge, but to save and to give the life he has in himself.”Catechism 679

For Our Lives Today

At school pickup, a mom is on her phone while her little boy tugs at her sleeve, and you think, “Some people should not be parents.” At work, the new guy is late again, and you have him all figured out. You have no idea that her father is in the hospital, or that he is up at night caring for a sick wife. We fill in the blanks fast, and usually unkindly. Chapter 74 warns against taking “the place of God.” Only He sees the whole story, and He loves the person you just judged.

Try this today: When you catch yourself judging someone today, think of one good reason they might be struggling, and pray for them.


Cutting for the Master Carpenter

Explains these lines

“Is like trying to cut for the master carpenter

If you try to cut for the master carpenter

You will end up cutting off your hand”

The chapter closes with a picture anyone can see. A master carpenter knows the grain of every board, the plan for every joint and the exact place for every cut. An apprentice who grabs the saw to cut the master’s work does not know the plan and does not have the skill. He spoils the wood and hurts himself. For Christians the picture holds a surprise, because our Lord worked with wood.

“Is not this the carpenter…”
Mark 6:3ESV

Jesus, the carpenter of Nazareth, is the Master who shapes every life. He knows what He is building in your sister, your neighbor and the person you cannot stand, and He does not need us to take the saw. He even used a carpenter’s picture to warn us about judging: we fuss over a speck of sawdust in someone else’s eye while a plank sits in our own.

“Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?”
Matthew 7:3ESV

That is how we end up “cutting off” our own hand. Judging and revenge wound the one who holds the saw. They harden the heart, break relationships and make it harder to receive mercy ourselves, for “with the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (Matthew 7:2). Our hands were made for better work.

The Church Teaches

“…the one who, while being God, became like us in all things devoted most of the years of his life on earth to manual work at the carpenter’s bench.”Saint John Paul II, Laborem Exercens 6

“The important thing is not to fuel anger, which is unhealthy for our own soul and the soul of our people, or to become obsessed with taking revenge and destroying the other. No one achieves inner peace or returns to a normal life in that way.”Pope Francis, Fratelli Tutti 242

For Our Lives Today

You decide to fix the leaking sink yourself to save money. A video makes it look easy. An hour later the cabinet is flooded and you have a gash on your thumb. We do the same with people. We try to fix a grown child’s choices, a spouse’s habits or a friend’s faith with pressure and sharp words, and we end up bleeding ourselves: tense dinners, cold silences, sleepless nights. Chapter 74 says that if you cut for the master carpenter, “you will end up cutting off your hand.” Some jobs belong to the Master.

Try this today: Name one person you keep trying to “fix,” hand them to Jesus in a short prayer, and do one simple kind thing for them instead.


Living the Chapter

From Chapter 74

The whole chapter, put into practice

In Christian theology, judgment is the prerogative of God alone (1 Corinthians 4:5), and His judgment is based on perfect wisdom, righteousness, and mercy. We are called to leave judgment to God, trusting that He will judge justly, and to practice love, forgiveness, and mercy in our interactions with others. Psalm 96:13 reminds us that God’s judgment is righteous, and it will be done in accordance with His perfect will. Thus, this chapter of the Tao Te Ching reinforces the Christian call to humility before God’s authority, to refrain from judging others, and to trust in God’s ultimate justice. Our role is not to usurp His place but to live in faith, letting God’s sovereign rule guide our lives and actions.

Chapter 74 frees our hands twice. First it frees them from fear: death no longer gets to threaten those who belong to Christ. Then it frees them from the saw: we do not have to be the judge of every person who hurts or disappoints us. The sovereign God judges justly, sees every heart and leads with mercy.

So what are our free hands for? They are for the work the Master Carpenter gives us: to forgive, to serve, to protect the weak and to build peace. When we fail, we bring “our sins” to Him in Confession, where the Judge Himself sends us away forgiven. The prophet Micah sums up the whole way of life.

“He has told you, O mortal, what is good, and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice and to love kindness and to walk humbly with your God?”
Micah 6:8NRSVue
The Church Teaches

“At the evening of life, we shall be judged on our love.”St. John of the Cross, quoted in Catechism 1022

“The message of the Last Judgment calls men to conversion while God is still giving them ‘the acceptable time, . . . the day of salvation.’”Catechism 1041

For Our Lives Today

Tonight, before you fall asleep, the day will replay: the driver who cut you off, the text you are still angry about, the thing you said that you wish you had not. You can lie there as judge and jury, or you can hand all of it to God. Chapter 74 shows the better way: “Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins.” Give Him their part and yours. Then rest. The Judge who sees everything is the same Lord who died for you, and He is not finished with any of us.

Try this today: Use Church Finder to look up the next Confession time near you, and add it to your calendar.

Chapter 74 in one lineFear of death cannot rule those who belong to Christ, so put down the saw: let the sovereign God, the Master Carpenter and the only just Judge, weigh our sins with mercy, and keep your hands free for love.



RENEWAL

The Trinitarian M.A.P. is the method for RENEWAL, where God’s Love shapes our MINDSET, Trust in the Son directs our AIM, and Faith in the Holy Spirit guides our PRACTICE.

This chapter offers a new “Method” for the New Evangelization to RENEW our hearts and minds through the Trinitarian M.A.P. Bring this chapter into your day with the BFG Companion App. Pick Chapter 74 and an area of your life, and get Guidance made for you.

1Free from fear“If people do not fear death”
2Fear cannot rule“If people live in constant fear of death”
3God is the judge“Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins”
4Not our place“To take the place of God”
5Hands set free“You will end up cutting off your hand”
MINDSET
God’s Love shapes how we think

Renewal starts in the mind, and Chapter 74 begins with a bold question: “If people do not fear death, why should you threaten them with death?” St. Paul wrote his last letter from a prison cell, with execution close. Yet he sounds free: “I have fought the good fight; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith” (2 Timothy 4:7, NRSVue). Threats had nothing left to hold on to, because his life already belonged to Christ. A renewed mind starts here. Jesus has walked through death and come out the other side, so fear no longer gets the final word over us.

The chapter then hands judgment back to its rightful owner: “Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins.” Much of our inner noise comes from running a courtroom in our heads, replaying who was wrong, who should pay and how we measure up. St. Paul lets it go: “judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes” (1 Corinthians 4:5). That is not giving up on what is right. It is trusting that the Lord sees what we cannot, even the motives of the heart, and that He will set everything right.

Try this: When an argument with someone starts replaying in your head today, stop and pray: “Lord, You are the judge. I hand this to You.”

2 Timothy 4:6-7NRSVue “As for me, I am already being poured out as a libation, and the time of my departure has come. I have fought the good fight; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith.”

1 Corinthians 4:5NRSVue “Therefore do not pronounce judgment before the time, before the Lord comes, who will bring to light the things now hidden in darkness and will disclose the purposes of the heart…”

More Scripture: Matthew 10:28 · Romans 14:8

AIM
Trust in the Son directs where we look

A renewed mind needs a direction. Chapter 74 warns against one that looks strong but fails: ruling by fear. “If people live in constant fear of death, and you can kill the evildoers, who would dare to do it?” Threats can make people obey for a while, but they never change a heart. We try a small version of this when we lead by pressure at home, at work or in the group chat. Our aim is different. We point people to the Lord who “will judge the world in righteousness and the peoples in his faithfulness” (Psalm 96:13), and we lead the way He does, by love.

Look closely at the words “according to our sins.” Not their sins: ours. The chapter aims us first at our own hearts. Jesus says the same with a carpenter’s picture: “You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your neighbor’s eye” (Matthew 7:5, NRSVue). So before we aim at fixing anyone else, we let God work on us. That is not weakness. It is the only way to see clearly enough to help someone else, gently and without pride.

Try this: Before you point out someone’s fault today, name one of your own to God first and ask for His mercy.

Psalm 96:13NRSVue “before the LORD, for he is coming, for he is coming to judge the earth. He will judge the world with righteousness and the peoples with his truth.”

Matthew 7:5NRSVue “You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your neighbor’s eye.”

More Scripture: Galatians 6:1 · Psalm 103:10

PRACTICE
Faith in the Holy Spirit guides how we live

Renewal becomes real in daily habits. Chapter 74 says, “To take the place of God is like trying to cut for the master carpenter.” We take His place every time we decide we know the full story of someone’s heart: the coworker who is always late, the relative who stopped going to Mass, the stranger in the comments. St. Paul asks, “why do you judge your brother or sister?… For we will all stand before God’s judgment seat” (Romans 14:10). So we practice a small surrender: we name a wrong act when we must, but we leave the person to God.

The chapter ends with a warning: “If you try to cut for the master carpenter, you will end up cutting off your hand.” Revenge and grudges promise to settle the score, but they cut us first. They cost sleep, peace and friendships, and they leave our hands too wounded to do good. So we practice letting go: “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath” (Romans 12:19). Then we use our free hands for what the Master Carpenter gives us to do: to bless, to build and to heal.

Try this: Think of one person you have been quietly holding a grudge against, and pray one blessing for them by name today.

Romans 14:10NRSVue “Why do you pass judgment on your brother or sister? Or you, why do you despise your brother or sister? For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God.”

Romans 12:19NRSVue “…but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord.””

More Scripture: Romans 12:21 · Luke 6:37

In short: think humbly, aim at what is eternal, live by the Spirit. Let go of fear, because Christ has conquered death; look at your own heart before anyone else’s; and leave every final verdict to God, the Master Carpenter, so your hands are free to love.




RESPOND

Renewal brings the transformation of our spirit with ardor, empowering us to RESPOND to the call of holiness and make disciples of all nations. This encourages meaningful dialogue to embrace shared truths that transcend cultural and religious boundaries.

Respond · Go and Share
Go and Share: Responding as Missionary Apostles

Renewal does not end with us. When God frees a heart from fear, He sends it out. Chapter 74 looks at a world that tries to rule by threats and asks, “If people do not fear death, why should you threaten them with death?” Christ did not win us by fear; He laid down His life and rose again. We go out the same way: not as judges with a saw in hand, but as witnesses of a mercy we received first.

Step 1
The Call
“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations… And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”Matthew 28:19-20 (NRSVue)
“…you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”Acts 1:8 (NRSVue)
Step 2
New Ardor, New Methods, New Expression

In 1983, Saint John Paul II called the Church to an evangelization that is “new in its ardor, new in its methods, new in its expression.” The Gospel never changes. The way we carry it must be alive for our time. Chapter 74 shows why: in a time of outrage, pile-ons and quick verdicts, people need fresh words about a God who judges justly and loves first.

New in Ardor
The fire

Ardor is the fire of a heart that has been loved by God. People feel it before they hear a single word. Chapter 74 asks, “If people do not fear death, why should you threaten them with death?” A heart that is no longer afraid of losing everything can burn freely for Christ.

New in Expression
The words

Use the words people use today: simple, honest and personal. Share your story, not a lecture. Chapter 74 warns against “trying to cut for the master carpenter,” so share the faith as an invitation, never as a verdict on the person in front of you.

New in Methods
The tools

Meet people where they are: on the phone in their hand. The BFG Handbook and the BFG Companion turn one conversation into a path to Christ and His Church. Chapter 74 says, “Let the sovereign God be the judge.” Our tools never sort people into good and bad; they open a door and leave the rest to God.

Step 3
New in Ardor: The Fire
Pray first. Each morning ask the Holy Spirit, “Who do You want me to love today?”
Let joy show. A calm, joyful face says more than a perfect argument.
Fear less, love more. Chapter 74 shows that fear cannot rule a heart that belongs to God, so let love, not worry, set your pace.
Love the person, not the debate. Listen twice as long as you speak.
Be brave and gentle. “Always be ready to make your defense to anyone who demands from you an accounting for the hope that is in you, yet do it with gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:15-16, NRSVue).
“Modern man listens more willingly to witnesses than to teachers.”Saint Paul VI
Step 4
New in Expression: Words for Our Time

Use the words people use today: simple, honest and personal. Share your story, not a lecture. Chapter 74 warns against “trying to cut for the master carpenter,” so share the faith as an invitation, never as a verdict on the person in front of you.

They say“I am honestly terrified of dying.”
You can say“I feel that too sometimes. A chapter I read starts, “If people do not fear death,” and it reminds me that Jesus walked through death first and came back. We do not go through that door alone. Can we talk about it?”
They say“He deserves whatever he gets.”
You can say“I get being that angry. A line I keep coming back to is “Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins.” Our sins, mine too. God is fair, and He is merciful, to him and to me.”
They say“Who are you to tell me what is right?”
You can say“Fair question. I am not your judge, and I do not want to be. The BFG Handbook says taking the place of God is “like trying to cut for the master carpenter.” I am only sharing what has helped me.”
They say“Religion just controls people with fear.”
You can say“Fear is a poor ruler, and this chapter says so: “why should you threaten them with death?” Jesus did not rule by threats. He laid down His life for us, and Scripture says “perfect love drives out fear.””
They say“I cannot let it go. I want them to pay.”
You can say“That hurt is real. The chapter warns that if you try to cut for the master carpenter, “you will end up cutting off your hand.” Holding on to revenge hurts us most. Could we pray and hand it to God together?”
They say“Nobody ever gets punished for anything anymore.”
You can say“It can look that way. But Scripture says God “will judge the world in righteousness,” and nothing hidden stays hidden forever. That frees me from having to settle every score myself.”
Your story in three parts
1Before

What my life was like before I really met Jesus.

2How

How He met me, and the moment things began to change.

3Now

What is different now, and the hope I carry. When did you stop trying to be someone’s judge, and then see that God was already at work in them?

Step 5
New in Methods: The BFG Tools

Meet people where they are: on the phone in their hand. The BFG Handbook and the BFG Companion turn one conversation into a path to Christ and His Church. Chapter 74 says, “Let the sovereign God be the judge.” Our tools never sort people into good and bad; they open a door and leave the rest to God.

BFG Handbook

Every chapter has its own song and is written in a language people of every faith can understand. A doorway for dialogue. Chapter 74, The Sovereign Judge, helps anyone who lives with a fear of death, or who carries anger and wants someone to pay.

Guidance

A friend shares a struggle. Together, pick a chapter and an area of life (start with Chapter 74 when someone is afraid of dying, stuck in resentment, or quick to judge others). In seconds: a reflection, the M.A.P., a saint, a prayer, Scripture, a song and a church nearby. Send it by email, PDF or a share link.

Ask BFG

Hard question? Ask it together. Answers are grounded in Catholic teaching, the saints and the BFG Handbook. Talk or type. Try asking together: “If God is the judge, what do I do with my anger when someone hurts me?”

Pray My Rosary

Pray the Rosary with a guided voice, the daily mysteries and beads that follow along. Pray it with someone, even over the phone. In the Sorrowful Mysteries we watch Jesus judged unjustly and silent before His accusers: the Sovereign Judge letting Himself be judged for us.

Church Finder

Catholic churches near anyone, with Mass and Confession times, directions, and one tap to add a time to the calendar. Every conversation can end at a church door. There, in Confession, we bring “our sins” to the Judge who forgives, and at Mass we receive the One who conquered death.

Reminders & My Journey

Morning, midday and evening prayer reminders, a daily streak and a steady prayer rhythm help a new believer keep going. A daily pause to hand every verdict back to God.

Free to start, no card needed. Read aloud in 48 languages.

Step 6
Why BFG Is Made for the New Evangelization
1
It meets people where they are. In their pocket, at any hour, in 48 languages.
2
It is personal. It speaks to their exact question, not a one-size pamphlet.
3
It is faithful. Grounded in Scripture, Catholic teaching and the lives of the saints.
4
It leads to the Church. Every Guidance ends with a real parish, with Mass and Confession times.
5
It opens doors. The Handbook gives people of every faith a common language for dialogue. The fear of death and the urge to judge are things every person knows from the inside, just as Chapter 74 describes.
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It keeps walking with them. Prayer reminders, the Rosary and My Journey help faith grow day by day.
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It serves people; it does not replace them. Technology at the service of the human person. You are still the witness.
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It has guardrails and safeguards. Every answer is checked to stay true to Catholic teaching, and anyone in crisis is pointed to real help right away. Like Chapter 74, which leaves judgment to God, it never condemns anyone; it points to God’s mercy and the Church’s teaching.

One tool that walks with a person from the first question to the church door.

Step 7
Where Can I Go? Start Close, Then Go Far

Jesus sent His apostles first to Jerusalem, then to Judea and Samaria, then to the ends of the earth (Acts 1:8). Start where you are. Chapter 74 says, “Let the sovereign God be the judge,” so you are free to meet the people around you with kindness instead of a verdict.

1 Home & Family First
  • Pray the Rosary together on Pray My Rosary.
  • Bless your children at bedtime.
  • Share a Guidance with a spouse or child who is struggling.
  • Find Sunday Mass times together with Church Finder.
  • Read Chapter 74 at dinner and ask: “Who have we been judging this week, and how can we bless them instead?”
2 Friends
  • Text a verse from your Guidance.
  • Ask, “How can I pray for you?” and pray right then.
  • Invite a friend to Mass, then go for coffee.
  • Send the line: “Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins.”
3 School & Work
  • Be the calm, kind one.
  • Pray on your lunch break with a reminder.
  • Start a small chapter group that meets once a week. Begin with Chapter 74, The Sovereign Judge.
  • Respect the rules: invite, never push.
4 Parties & Get-Togethers
  • Listen for the moment: “Things have been hard.”
  • Offer: “Can I send you something that helped me?”
  • Share the Chapter 74 song.
5 Meeting People One-on-One
  • Ask good questions and really listen.
  • Share your three-part story.
  • Open Ask BFG together when a question comes up.
  • When a friend is eaten up by a grudge, share the line “you will end up cutting off your hand,” and offer to pray with them.
6 Your Neighborhood & Parish
  • Visit the sick, the elderly and the lonely; pray the Rosary with them.
  • Serve at a food bank.
  • Welcome newcomers at Mass.
  • Join your parish evangelization team.
7 Local Businesses
  • Ask shops, cafés and offices to display a BFG card with a QR code.
  • Offer a short lunch talk on faith at work.
  • Business owners: offer the Companion to staff as a free gift, never a requirement.
8 Popular Places: Gyms, Parks, Coffee Shops & Game Days
  • Go where people already gather, and be the friendly one who listens.
  • Pray quietly for the people around you.
  • When a talk turns real, share a Guidance or the chapter song.
  • Wear or carry a simple sign of your faith, like a cross or a rosary, that can start a conversation.
  • At a game day, when the crowd boos the referee, remember that only one Judge sees every play, and share that Chapter 74 leaves the final call to God.
9 Hold an Event
  • Host a Chapter 74 “The Sovereign Judge” night, a Handbook chapter night, a Rosary night or an “Ask Anything” faith night.
  • Show the Companion on a big screen and let people try it.
  • We did this at our free conference, The New Evangelization in the Age of AI, at Christ Cathedral.
10 Online
  • Share a Guidance, a chapter song or a Scripture card. Try: “Let the sovereign God be the judge according to our sins”
  • One post can reach someone you will never meet.
11 Other Countries
  • Join a parish or diocese mission trip.
  • The Companion speaks 48 languages, so you leave behind something that keeps speaking after you go home.
  • Every culture knows the fear of death and the hunger for justice, a natural door to Christ, who conquered death and judges with mercy.
12 Help Groups Doing the Work
  • Your parish ministries, the Legion of Mary, the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, Catholic Charities, prison, hospital and campus ministries, and mission groups.
  • Bring the BFG tools to their work.
Step 8
Your Mission M.A.P.
M
Mindset “I am sent.”God has loved me, so I can love others without fear. Death has lost its grip on me, because my life belongs to Christ.
A
Aim “One person this week.”Write down one name. Jesus always went to the one. Point them to the Judge who sees the heart and loves first.
P
Practice “Pray, share, invite.”Pray for them by name each day, share one thing that helped you, and invite them one step closer. Pray for one person you have judged this week, and leave the verdict to God.
Five steps of every conversation
ListenHear their story first.→LoveShow you care, whatever they believe.→ShareTell what God has done for you.→InviteOffer one next step.→Walk withStay with them after the first yes.
Step 9
Your 7-Day Mission Challenge
Step 10
Sent Out

You will meet people who want someone to pay, and people who are quietly terrified of the end. You do not have to be their judge, and you do not have to be afraid. Chapter 74 says, “Let the sovereign God be the judge,” and Christ has already walked through death for us. Go with open hands. Go with mercy. Go together. The same Spirit who freed you from fear now sends you.

“…And I said, ‘Here am I; send me!’”Isaiah 6:8 (NRSVue)
“How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”Romans 10:15 (NRSVue)
A prayer before you go

Sovereign Judge, rich in mercy, Holy Spirit, set my heart on fire. Jesus, send me to the one You love. Father, make me Your witness today. Amen.

NRSVue © 2021 National Council of the Churches of Christ in the USA. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. Scripture quotations marked ESV are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. ESV Text Edition: 2025. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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