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This chapter from the BFG Handbook (Christian Edition of the Tao Te Ching) presents the gospel through a new "Expression" of God’s Love to RESTORE the Truth.

Chapter 14 from the BFG Handbook (Christian Edition of the Tao Te Ching) presents the gospel through a new “Expression” of God’s Love to RESTORE people to the Truth.

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Chapter 14: Presence of God

 

We look and do not see it 1
And call it invisible 
We listen and do not hear it 2
And call it silent 
We reach and do not grasp it 1
And call it formless 
These three cannot be fathomed 3
Thus, they are joined into One 

Above, there is no brightness 4
Below, there is no darkness 
Infinite, unnamable 5
Returning to the realm of nothingness 
The form of the formless 
The image of the imageless 
Indefinable, beyond all imagination 6
Approach it, there is no beginning 1
Follow it, there is no end 

When one knows the Spirit of the ancient past 7
One can begin to understand the present
Knowing the mystery of the beginning 
Is the way to know God


Scripture behind each line
1
“We look and do not see it”
Romans 1:20-21John 14:17
2
“We listen and do not hear it”
John 8:47Mark 4:12
3
“These three cannot be fathomed”
Jude 20-211 Corinthians 2:6-16
4
“Above, there is no brightness”
Isaiah 60:19
5
“Infinite, unnamable”
Colossians 1:15-16Isaiah 40:28
6
“Indefinable, beyond all imagination”
Job 9:10-11
7
“When one knows the Spirit of the ancient past”
John 1:1-2John 14:6-7John 8:14-18.

Unseen, Unheard, Out of Reach

Explains these lines

“We look and do not see it

And call it invisible

We listen and do not hear it

And call it silent

We reach and do not grasp it

And call it formless”

Chapter 14 of the Christian edition of the Tao Te Ching, titled Presence of God, delves into the profound mystery of God’s presence, which can be elusive and beyond human comprehension. The chapter begins by highlighting how, despite our efforts to observe, listen, or reach out, we often fail to perceive God’s presence. The “invisible,” “silent,” and “formless” descriptions echo the Christian experience of seeking God, who is often not seen with physical eyes but is known through faith. Romans 1:20-21 speaks to how God’s invisible qualities are evident in creation, yet humanity, in its sin, often fails to recognize Him. Similarly, Jesus speaks of the Holy Spirit as “the Spirit of truth,” who “lives with you and will be in you” (John 14:17), but the world does not recognize Him.

Notice what the chapter does not say. It never says there is nothing there. It says we look and do not see, we listen and do not hear, we reach and do not grasp. The trouble is not that God is absent. Our eyes, ears and hands were made for created things, and God is not one more thing among them.

“Whoever is of God hears the words of God…”
John 8:47ESV

So “invisible,” “silent” and “formless” are not complaints. They are the honest words of someone who has begun to seek. Jesus warned that a person can be “ever seeing but never perceiving” (Mark 4:12), and St. Paul said God made us to “reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from any one of us” (Acts 17:27). Faith is a new way of seeing. It does not wait for God to fit in our hands before it trusts Him.

“Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory”
1 Peter 1:8ESV
The Church Teaches

“God transcends all creatures… Our human words always fall short of the mystery of God.”Catechism 42

“…together with hearing and seeing, Saint John can speak of faith as touch… By his taking flesh and coming among us, Jesus has touched us, and through the sacraments he continues to touch us even today…”Pope Francis, Lumen Fidei 31

The three things the chapter says we cannot do, see, hear and grasp, are the very things faith learns to do in a new way through Jesus and the sacraments.

For Our Lives Today

You sit in the car after a hard appointment, engine off, and try to pray. Nothing. No warm feeling, no sign, just the hum of traffic and your phone buzzing with messages you do not want to read. It is easy to decide that God is not listening. Chapter 14 names this moment honestly: “We look and do not see it… We listen and do not hear it.” But not seeing is not the same as nobody there. The God who feels silent is still present, closer than your own breath.

Try this today: When you feel nothing in prayer today, stay one more minute anyway and tell God, “I am here, and I trust that You are too.”


Three Joined into One

Explains these lines

“These three cannot be fathomed

Thus, they are joined into One”

The passage’s reference to the “three”—invisibility, silence, and formlessness—points to the mystery of God’s essence, which cannot be fully fathomed or defined by human understanding. As we draw closer to God, we begin to grasp the paradox that God is both beyond imagination yet deeply personal. In the Christian faith, God’s nature is both “indefinable” and “knowable,” revealed through Jesus Christ, the image of the invisible God (Colossians 1:15). The idea of God being “above, with no brightness” and “below, with no darkness” reflects His eternal and unchanging nature, as Isaiah 60:19 reminds us that the Lord Himself is our everlasting light, transcending earthly categories of light and dark.

For a Christian, the line “Thus, they are joined into One” also points to the deepest mystery of all. God has revealed Himself as Father, Son and Holy Spirit: three Persons, one God. One of the verses behind this line shows all three at work in a single sentence about prayer.

“But you, beloved, building yourselves up in your most holy faith and praying in the Holy Spirit, keep yourselves in the love of God, waiting for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ that leads to eternal life.”
Jude 20-21ESV

We could never have worked this out on our own. The chapter is right that these three “cannot be fathomed.” But St. Paul, in the other passage behind these lines, says God has not left us guessing. What no eye has seen and no ear has heard, He has made known to us by His Spirit.

“…“What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him”— these things God has revealed to us through the Spirit. For the Spirit searches everything, even the depths of God.”
1 Corinthians 2:9-10ESV

So the mystery does not push us away. It draws us in. The same Spirit who “searches all things” lives in those who belong to Christ, and He leads us, step by step, into the life of the One God. We do not have to understand the Trinity before we pray. We pray, and little by little, the Father, the Son and the Spirit make themselves known.

The Church Teaches

“The Trinity is One. We do not confess three Gods, but one God in three persons, the ‘consubstantial Trinity’.”Catechism 253

“The Trinity is a mystery of faith in the strict sense, one of the ‘mysteries that are hidden in God, which can never be known unless they are revealed by God’.”Catechism 237

“The mystery of the Most Holy Trinity is the central mystery of the Christian faith and of Christian life. God alone can make it known to us by revealing himself as Father, Son and Holy Spirit.”Catechism 261

For Our Lives Today

Think about the people who know you best: your mom, your spouse, your oldest friend. You have known them for years, and they can still surprise you. If a person is that deep, how much deeper is God? Chapter 14 says these three “cannot be fathomed,” and yet they “are joined into One.” We will never have God all figured out, and that is not a failure. Like a good friendship, faith in the Trinity grows by spending time together, not by solving a puzzle.

Try this today: Make the Sign of the Cross slowly today, and greet each Person by name: Father, Son and Holy Spirit.


Light Beyond Light and Dark

Explains these lines

“Above, there is no brightness

Below, there is no darkness

Infinite, unnamable

Returning to the realm of nothingness”

The concept of God as “infinite” and “unnamable” points to His transcendence, as stated in Isaiah 40:28—God’s understanding is beyond measure, and He is not confined by human limitations. This mirrors the Christian belief in the mystery of the divine nature and the unsearchable wisdom of God (Romans 11:33-34). At the same time, “returning to the realm of nothingness” can be understood as the concept of divine self-sufficiency—God exists apart from and independent of creation, yet everything flows from Him.

Look again at the first two lines of this part: “Above, there is no brightness / Below, there is no darkness.” We sort our lives into bright days and dark ones. God cannot be sorted that way. He does not grow brighter on our good days or dimmer on our bad ones. The psalmist discovered that even his darkest night was not dark to God.

“even the darkness is not dark to you; the night is as bright as the day, for darkness is as light to you.”
Psalm 139:12NRSVue

The “realm of nothingness” also reminds us where everything came from. God made the world out of nothing, and He needed nothing to do it. Nothing we are or have was owed to us; all of it is gift. That is humbling, and it is freeing. The God who first called light out of darkness can call new life out of the empty places in us.

“For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.”
2 Corinthians 4:6ESV
The Church Teaches

“Our Father is not ‘elsewhere’: he transcends everything we can conceive of his holiness. It is precisely because he is thrice holy that he is so close to the humble and contrite heart.”Catechism 2794

“We believe that God needs no pre-existent thing or any help in order to create… God creates freely ‘out of nothing’…”Catechism 296

For Our Lives Today

Some seasons feel all one color. The new job, the new baby, the good news: everything is bright. Then the diagnosis, the layoff or the breakup comes, and everything goes dark. We start to think God was with us in the first season and left in the second. Chapter 14 says, “Above, there is no brightness / Below, there is no darkness.” God is not a mood that comes and goes. He is the same in the hospital waiting room as at the birthday party, and He sees you clearly in both.

Try this today: Tonight, think of one bright moment and one dark moment from your week, and thank God that He was fully present in both.


The Image of the Invisible God

Explains these lines

“The form of the formless

The image of the imageless

Indefinable, beyond all imagination”

Then the chapter says something surprising: “The form of the formless / The image of the imageless.” How can what has no form be given a form? For a Christian, the answer has a name. The eternal Son, who shares the Father’s glory, took flesh in the womb of the Virgin Mary. The God no one could picture now has a human face.

“He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation, for in him all things in heaven and on earth were created, things visible and invisible…”
Colossians 1:15-16NRSVue

God is still “indefinable, beyond all imagination.” Job, in the verse behind this line, confessed that God works wonders “that cannot be fathomed” and passes by unseen. We will never shrink God down to the size of our ideas. Yet in Jesus the One beyond imagination stepped into our story. When Philip asked to see the Father, Jesus answered him gently.

“…Whoever has seen me has seen the Father…”
John 14:9NRSVue

This keeps us humble and close at the same time. We do not have to guess what God is like. We look at Jesus: His mercy with sinners, His patience with His slow friends, His tears at a friend’s tomb, His wounds offered for us. Everything God wants us to know about His heart, He has shown us in the face of Christ.

The Church Teaches

“It cannot represent the invisible and incomprehensible God, but the incarnation of the Son of God has ushered in a new ‘economy’ of images…”Catechism 1159

“…‘between Creator and creature no similitude can be expressed without implying an even greater dissimilitude’; and that ‘concerning God, we cannot grasp what he is, but only what he is not, and how other beings stand in relation to him.’”Catechism 43

The Church honors sacred images of Christ because, in Him, the invisible God made Himself visible. The worship itself is for God alone.

For Our Lives Today

Everyone carries a picture of God, often without knowing it. For some He is a strict boss checking the timesheet. For others He is a distant figure who stopped paying attention long ago. Many of those pictures come from our own hurts. Chapter 14 says God is “indefinable, beyond all imagination,” so every picture we invent falls short. But He has given us the true one: “The image of the imageless,” Jesus. If your picture of God does not look like Jesus, it is not the real God.

Try this today: Read one Gospel story today and ask, “What does this show me about what God is really like?”


No Beginning, No End

Explains these lines

“Approach it, there is no beginning

Follow it, there is no end”

“Approach it, there is no beginning / Follow it, there is no end.” Everything we know has a start and a finish: jobs, phones, friendships, even our own lives on earth. God has neither. There was never a time when He was not, and there will never be a time when He stops being God.

“Before the mountains were brought forth or ever you had formed the earth and the world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God.”
Psalm 90:2NRSVue

Notice the two verbs: approach and follow. The chapter does not ask us to measure God, which we could never do. It invites us to come near and to keep walking. In Jesus, the eternal God became Someone we can actually follow, and the road with Him never runs out.

“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.”
Hebrews 13:8NRSVue

That is a deep comfort when life keeps changing. Our feelings rise and fall, plans fall through, people move away. The One we follow does not change. He loved us before we were born, He walks with us now, and His love will have no end. When everything else feels temporary, we can lean our whole weight on Him.

The Church Teaches

“In God ‘there is no variation or shadow due to change.’ God is ‘HE WHO IS’, from everlasting to everlasting, and as such remains ever faithful to himself and to his promises.”Catechism 212

“God is the fullness of Being and of every perfection, without origin and without end.”Catechism 213

For Our Lives Today

Your phone warns you when the battery is low. Your car reminds you it needs service. Almost everything around us is running down, wearing out or waiting for an update. Friendships drift, jobs end, kids grow up and move away. It can leave us feeling that nothing lasts. Chapter 14 points to the One who does: “Approach it, there is no beginning / Follow it, there is no end.” God’s love for you will not expire, wear out or need an update. You can build your life on it.

Try this today: Name one thing in your life that is changing right now, and pray, “Lord, You do not change. Hold me steady.”


Knowing God from the Beginning

Explains these lines

“When one knows the Spirit of the ancient past

One can begin to understand the present

Knowing the mystery of the beginning

Is the way to know God”

In knowing the “Spirit of the ancient past,” we come to understand that God’s nature is revealed through time, in creation, in history, and most fully in Jesus Christ. John 1:1-2 declares that the Word was with God in the beginning, and through Him, all things were made. By knowing the Word (Jesus), we come to know God more deeply. The “mystery of the beginning” refers to the foundational truth of the Christian faith that God, who has no beginning or end, is the Creator and Sustainer of all that exists. Jesus is the key to understanding the mystery of God’s eternal nature, as He is the Alpha and the Omega (Revelation 22:13), the beginning and the end.

These last lines also give us a key for daily life: “One can begin to understand the present.” We often try to make sense of today by looking only at today: the headlines, our feeds, our worries. The chapter tells us to look further back. When we know the God who was there before anything began, the noise of today loses some of its power over us.

And Jesus does not only point to “the way to know God.” He is the way. In the verses behind these lines, He says He knows “where I came from and where I am going” (John 8:14). Those who walk with Him share His confidence. We may not know what tomorrow holds, but we know the One who holds the beginning and the end.

“…I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you know me, you will know my Father also…”
John 14:6-7NRSVue

Notice, too, the word “Spirit.” The same Holy Spirit who was present at the beginning of creation is the Spirit Jesus sends to teach us today. He takes the ancient words of Scripture and makes them speak into our own lives. That is why a psalm written long ago can sound as if it were written about this morning.

The Church Teaches

“…the eternal God gave a beginning to all that exists outside of himself; he alone is Creator…”Catechism 290

“Jesus revealed that God is Father in an unheard-of sense: he is Father not only in being Creator; he is eternally Father by his relationship to his only Son…”Catechism 240

For Our Lives Today

Every morning the news and our feeds tell us what to worry about. It is easy to live only in the present, reacting to whatever is loudest. Chapter 14 offers a deeper way: “When one knows the Spirit of the ancient past / One can begin to understand the present.” The Psalms were written long ago, yet they say exactly what we feel. The Gospels are ancient, yet Jesus speaks straight into our stress, our families and our fears. Starting the day with His Word puts today in its true place.

Try this today: Before you open the news or social media tomorrow, read a few verses of the Gospel first.


Living the Chapter

From Chapter 14

The whole chapter, put into practice

In summary, Presence of God emphasizes that God’s presence is both beyond human comprehension and intimately accessible through Jesus Christ. His nature is eternal and unchanging, and while we may not fully grasp Him, He has revealed Himself to us through creation, His Word, and the Holy Spirit. The more we align ourselves with His presence, the more we begin to understand the depth of His mystery and gain insight into His eternal purposes.

So how do we live in the presence of a God we cannot see, hear or hold? Chapter 14 gives us a path. We keep looking, even when we see nothing. We keep listening, even in the silence. We keep reaching, knowing that He is already holding us.

Above all, we fix our eyes on Jesus, “the image of the imageless,” who makes the invisible God known. Each time we pray, open His Word or kneel before Him in the Eucharist, we are learning the truth the chapter ends with: “Knowing the mystery of the beginning / Is the way to know God.”

“because we look not at what can be seen but at what cannot be seen, for what can be seen is temporary, but what cannot be seen is eternal.”
2 Corinthians 4:18NRSVue
The Church Teaches

“Because Christ himself is present in the sacrament of the altar, he is to be honored with the worship of adoration. ‘To visit the Blessed Sacrament is … a proof of gratitude, an expression of love, and a duty of adoration toward Christ our Lord.’”Catechism 1418

“Because of his transcendence, God cannot be seen as he is, unless he himself opens up his mystery to man’s immediate contemplation and gives him the capacity for it.”Catechism 1028

What the chapter says we cannot do now, see God, He promises to give us in heaven. Prayer is where that seeing begins.

For Our Lives Today

On the way home from work, you pass a church with its doors open. You almost keep driving, but you go in and sit in the back. It is quiet. The sanctuary lamp glows beside the tabernacle. You do not feel anything special, and you do not need to. Jesus is truly present there. You look at Him, and He looks at you. A little later you walk back out into the noise, but something in you is steadier. That is how the unseen God becomes the God we know.

Try this today: This week, stop into a church for a few quiet minutes, look toward the tabernacle, and simply say, “Jesus, I know You are here.”

Chapter 14 in one lineThe God we cannot see, hear or grasp has shown us His face in Jesus, and He stays present with us, with no beginning and no end.



RENEWAL

The Trinitarian M.A.P. is the method for RENEWAL, where God’s Love shapes our MINDSET, Trust in the Son directs our AIM, and Faith in the Holy Spirit guides our PRACTICE.

This chapter offers a new “Method” for the New Evangelization to RENEW our hearts and minds through the Trinitarian M.A.P. Bring this chapter into your day with the BFG Companion App. Pick Chapter 14 and an area of your life, and get Guidance made for you.

1Unseen, not absent“We look and do not see it”
2Listening in the quiet“We listen and do not hear it”
3No darkness in Him“Below, there is no darkness”
4The face of God“The image of the imageless”
5Following without end“Follow it, there is no end”
6Ancient words for today“One can begin to understand the present”
MINDSET
God’s Love shapes how we think

Renewal starts in the mind. Chapter 14 opens with “We look and do not see it / And call it invisible.” Many of us quietly assume that what we cannot see is not really there. But St. Paul says, “for we walk by faith, not by sight” (2 Corinthians 5:7, NRSVue). God’s love is not less real because it is unseen. So we begin by changing one thought: “I cannot see Him” does not mean “He is not here.” It means He is inviting me to trust Him.

The chapter goes on: “Above, there is no brightness / Below, there is no darkness.” We tend to measure God by our moods: close on bright days, far away on dark ones. But His love does not rise and fall with our feelings. The psalmist prays, “even the darkness will not be dark to you” (Psalm 139:12). A mind shaped by God’s love stops reading His presence from the weather of the heart and rests in the truth that He is always there.

Try this: When God feels far away today, say quietly, “Lord, I cannot see You, but I believe You are here.”

2 Corinthians 5:7NRSVue “for we walk by faith, not by sight.”

Psalm 139:11-12NRSVue “If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me, and night wraps itself around me,” even the darkness is not dark to you; the night is as bright as the day, for darkness is as light to you.”

More Scripture: Isaiah 55:9 · Hebrews 11:1

AIM
Trust in the Son directs where we look

A renewed mind needs somewhere to look, and Chapter 14 gives us a face: “The form of the formless / The image of the imageless.” We cannot aim at a God we cannot picture, so the Father gave us His Son. “The Son is the image of the invisible God” (Colossians 1:15). When we do not know what God is like, we look at Jesus: how He welcomed sinners, touched the sick and forgave from the Cross. That is where we aim our eyes, our choices and our hopes.

Then the chapter says, “Approach it, there is no beginning / Follow it, there is no end.” Our goals usually have finish lines: the degree, the promotion, the paid-off car. Following Christ has no finish line in this life, and that is good news. There is always more of Him to know and love. “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever” (Hebrews 13:8, NRSVue). So we aim at the One who does not change, and we keep following Him one step at a time.

Try this: Read one Gospel scene today, notice what Jesus does, and ask Him to help you do the same in one small way.

Colossians 1:15NRSVue “He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation”

Hebrews 13:8NRSVue “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.”

More Scripture: John 14:9 · Philippians 3:13-14

PRACTICE
Faith in the Holy Spirit guides how we live

Renewal becomes real in daily habits. Chapter 14 says, “We listen and do not hear it / And call it silent.” Our days are full of noise: notifications, podcasts, the TV left on in the background. The Holy Spirit rarely shouts. Elijah did not find God in the wind, the earthquake or the fire, but in “a gentle whisper” (1 Kings 19:12). So we practice making room for quiet: a few minutes with the phone in another room, simply listening, letting the Spirit pray in us.

The chapter ends, “When one knows the Spirit of the ancient past / One can begin to understand the present.” The Spirit who inspired the Scriptures long ago still speaks through them today. Jesus promised that the Holy Spirit “will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you” (John 14:26). So we practice a daily habit of opening God’s Word, even for a few verses, and we let the Spirit connect those ancient words to what we are living right now.

Try this: Today, sit in silence for a few minutes with your phone in another room, then read a few verses from the Gospel of John.

1 Kings 19:12NRSVue “and after the earthquake a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire, and after the fire a sound of sheer silence.”

John 14:26NRSVue “But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything and remind you of all that I have said to you.”

More Scripture: Jude 20-21 · 2 Timothy 3:16-17

In short: think humbly, aim at what is eternal, live by the Spirit. When God feels invisible and silent, trust His unseen love, keep your eyes on Jesus, the image of the imageless, and let the Spirit teach you in the quiet.




RESPOND

Renewal brings the transformation of our spirit with ardor, empowering us to RESPOND to the call of holiness and make disciples of all nations. This encourages meaningful dialogue to embrace shared truths that transcend cultural and religious boundaries.

Respond · Go and Share
Go and Share: Responding as Missionary Apostles

Renewal does not end with us. Chapter 14 begins with a God we “look and do not see,” and many people around us live right there: they have looked, listened and reached, and come up empty. They need someone who has met “the image of the imageless” and can point them to His face. You cannot show anyone the form of the formless, but you can show them Jesus, and in Him the invisible God draws near.

Step 1
The Call
“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations… And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”Matthew 28:19-20 (NRSVue)
“…you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”Acts 1:8 (NRSVue)
Step 2
New Ardor, New Methods, New Expression

In 1983, Saint John Paul II called the Church to an evangelization that is “new in its ardor, new in its methods, new in its expression.” The Gospel never changes. The way we carry it must be alive for our time. Chapter 14 shows why: a loud world that trusts only what it can see on a screen needs fresh words for a God who is present even when He is unseen.

New in Ardor
The fire

Ardor is the fire of a heart that has been loved by God. People feel it before they hear a single word. Chapter 14 says, “Follow it, there is no end.” The fire does not burn out, because the One we follow has no end.

New in Expression
The words

Use the words people use today: simple, honest and personal. Share your story, not a lecture. Chapter 14 calls God “indefinable, beyond all imagination,” so speak of Him with wonder and simple words, without needing to explain everything.

New in Methods
The tools

Meet people where they are: on the phone in their hand. The BFG Handbook and the BFG Companion turn one conversation into a path to Christ and His Church. Chapter 14 says God is “beyond all imagination.” Our tools cannot contain Him; they only help people come near and listen.

Step 3
New in Ardor: The Fire
Pray first. Each morning ask the Holy Spirit, “Who do You want me to love today?”
Let joy show. A calm, joyful face says more than a perfect argument.
Stay close to the unseen. The chapter admits “we listen and do not hear it,” so keep listening in prayer anyway; a quiet heart keeps the fire burning.
Love the person, not the debate. Listen twice as long as you speak.
Be brave and gentle. “Always be ready to make your defense to anyone who demands from you an accounting for the hope that is in you, yet do it with gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:15-16, NRSVue).
“Modern man listens more willingly to witnesses than to teachers.”Saint Paul VI
Step 4
New in Expression: Words for Our Time

Use the words people use today: simple, honest and personal. Share your story, not a lecture. Chapter 14 calls God “indefinable, beyond all imagination,” so speak of Him with wonder and simple words, without needing to explain everything.

They say“I pray, but God never answers.”
You can say“I have felt that too. There is a line I love: “We listen and do not hear it, and call it silent.” Silence is not the same as absence. Sometimes He is closest when He is quiet. Want to pray together for a minute?”
They say“If God is real, why can’t I see Him?”
You can say“Good question. The chapter I am reading says, “We look and do not see it.” We cannot see Him the way we see things, but Jesus said, “Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father.” Want to look at Jesus together?”
They say“God is too big to know. Nobody can understand Him.”
You can say“You are right that no one understands all of Him. He is “beyond all imagination.” But He made Himself known in Jesus, “the image of the imageless.” We cannot know everything about Him, but we can know Him.”
They say“Everything in my life keeps changing.”
You can say“That is so hard. What steadies me is a line about God: “Approach it, there is no beginning. Follow it, there is no end.” He does not change, even when everything else does.”
They say“My life feels so dark right now.”
You can say“I am sorry. I will not rush you. One line I hold onto says of God, “Below, there is no darkness.” Even here, He sees you clearly and has not left. Can I keep you in my prayers?”
They say“The Bible is just old stories. What does it have to do with today?”
You can say“I used to wonder that too. There is a line I like: “When one knows the Spirit of the ancient past, one can begin to understand the present.” Those old words keep explaining my life today. Want to read one with me?”
Your story in three parts
1Before

What my life was like before I really met Jesus.

2How

How He met me, and the moment things began to change.

3Now

What is different now, and the hope I carry. Like the chapter’s “We look and do not see it,” when did God feel far away, and how did you later see He had been there all along?

Step 5
New in Methods: The BFG Tools

Meet people where they are: on the phone in their hand. The BFG Handbook and the BFG Companion turn one conversation into a path to Christ and His Church. Chapter 14 says God is “beyond all imagination.” Our tools cannot contain Him; they only help people come near and listen.

BFG Handbook

Every chapter has its own song and is written in a language people of every faith can understand. A doorway for dialogue. Chapter 14, Presence of God, helps anyone who prays and hears nothing, or who quietly wonders whether God is really there.

Guidance

A friend shares a struggle. Together, pick a chapter and an area of life (start with Chapter 14 when someone feels God is silent or far away, or cannot picture what God is like). In seconds: a reflection, the M.A.P., a saint, a prayer, Scripture, a song and a church nearby. Send it by email, PDF or a share link.

Ask BFG

Hard question? Ask it together. Answers are grounded in Catholic teaching, the saints and the BFG Handbook. Talk or type. Try asking together: “If I cannot see or hear God, how can I know He is with me?”

Pray My Rosary

Pray the Rosary with a guided voice, the daily mysteries and beads that follow along. Pray it with someone, even over the phone. In the Rosary we look at the face of Jesus, “the image of the imageless,” through the eyes of Mary, one mystery at a time.

Church Finder

Catholic churches near anyone, with Mass and Confession times, directions, and one tap to add a time to the calendar. Every conversation can end at a church door. There, in the Eucharist, the God we “look and do not see” is truly present under the appearance of bread and wine.

Reminders & My Journey

Morning, midday and evening prayer reminders, a daily streak and a steady prayer rhythm help a new believer keep going. A gentle call back to the God who is near even when “we listen and do not hear it.”

Free to start, no card needed. Read aloud in 48 languages.

Step 6
Why BFG Is Made for the New Evangelization
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It meets people where they are. In their pocket, at any hour, in 48 languages.
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It is personal. It speaks to their exact question, not a one-size pamphlet.
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It is faithful. Grounded in Scripture, Catholic teaching and the lives of the saints.
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It leads to the Church. Every Guidance ends with a real parish, with Mass and Confession times.
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It opens doors. The Handbook gives people of every faith a common language for dialogue. Chapter 14’s honest words, like “invisible” and “silent,” speak to everyone who has ever wondered if God is there.
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It keeps walking with them. Prayer reminders, the Rosary and My Journey help faith grow day by day.
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It serves people; it does not replace them. Technology at the service of the human person. You are still the witness.
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It has guardrails and safeguards. Every answer is checked to stay true to Catholic teaching, and anyone in crisis is pointed to real help right away. Like Chapter 14, which calls God “indefinable, beyond all imagination,” it does not invent its own picture of God; it passes on what the Church teaches.

One tool that walks with a person from the first question to the church door.

Step 7
Where Can I Go? Start Close, Then Go Far

Jesus sent His apostles first to Jerusalem, then to Judea and Samaria, then to the ends of the earth (Acts 1:8). Start where you are. Chapter 14 says God is present even when unseen, so the people right around you are never outside His reach.

1 Home & Family First
  • Pray the Rosary together on Pray My Rosary.
  • Bless your children at bedtime.
  • Share a Guidance with a spouse or child who is struggling.
  • Find Sunday Mass times together with Church Finder.
  • Turn off the screens, sit together in silence for a moment, then read Chapter 14 and ask: “Where did we notice God today without seeing Him?”
2 Friends
  • Text a verse from your Guidance.
  • Ask, “How can I pray for you?” and pray right then.
  • Invite a friend to Mass, then go for coffee.
  • Send the line: “Approach it, there is no beginning. Follow it, there is no end.”
3 School & Work
  • Be the calm, kind one.
  • Pray on your lunch break with a reminder.
  • Start a small chapter group that meets once a week. Begin with Chapter 14, Presence of God.
  • Respect the rules: invite, never push.
4 Parties & Get-Togethers
  • Listen for the moment: “Things have been hard.”
  • Offer: “Can I send you something that helped me?”
  • Share the Chapter 14 song.
5 Meeting People One-on-One
  • Ask good questions and really listen.
  • Share your three-part story.
  • Open Ask BFG together when a question comes up.
  • When a friend says God feels silent, share the line “We listen and do not hear it,” and remind them that silence is not absence.
6 Your Neighborhood & Parish
  • Visit the sick, the elderly and the lonely; pray the Rosary with them.
  • Serve at a food bank.
  • Welcome newcomers at Mass.
  • Join your parish evangelization team.
7 Local Businesses
  • Ask shops, cafés and offices to display a BFG card with a QR code.
  • Offer a short lunch talk on faith at work.
  • Business owners: offer the Companion to staff as a free gift, never a requirement.
8 Popular Places: Gyms, Parks, Coffee Shops & Game Days
  • Go where people already gather, and be the friendly one who listens.
  • Pray quietly for the people around you.
  • When a talk turns real, share a Guidance or the chapter song.
  • Wear or carry a simple sign of your faith, like a cross or a rosary, that can start a conversation.
  • On a walk in the park, point to the wind moving the trees: unseen, yet moving everything, a simple picture of the God Chapter 14 calls “invisible.”
9 Hold an Event
  • Host a Chapter 14 “Presence of God” night, a Handbook chapter night, a Rosary night or an “Ask Anything” faith night.
  • Show the Companion on a big screen and let people try it.
  • We did this at our free conference, The New Evangelization in the Age of AI, at Christ Cathedral.
10 Online
  • Share a Guidance, a chapter song or a Scripture card. Try: “Knowing the mystery of the beginning is the way to know God.”
  • One post can reach someone you will never meet.
11 Other Countries
  • Join a parish or diocese mission trip.
  • The Companion speaks 48 languages, so you leave behind something that keeps speaking after you go home.
  • Every culture has words for a God beyond sight and sound; Chapter 14 shows how that unseen God has a human face in Jesus Christ.
12 Help Groups Doing the Work
  • Your parish ministries, the Legion of Mary, the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, Catholic Charities, prison, hospital and campus ministries, and mission groups.
  • Bring the BFG tools to their work.
Step 8
Your Mission M.A.P.
M
Mindset “I am sent.”God has loved me, so I can love others without fear. When I cannot see God, I trust that He is still present.
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Aim “One person this week.”Write down one name. Jesus always went to the one. Point them to Jesus, the image of the God they cannot see.
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Practice “Pray, share, invite.”Pray for them by name each day, share one thing that helped you, and invite them one step closer. Sit in silence with God for a few minutes each day this week, and listen.
Five steps of every conversation
ListenHear their story first.→LoveShow you care, whatever they believe.→ShareTell what God has done for you.→InviteOffer one next step.→Walk withStay with them after the first yes.
Step 9
Your 7-Day Mission Challenge
Step 10
Sent Out

Some days you will not feel God at all. You will look and not see, listen and not hear. Chapter 14 says that is not the end of the story: “Follow it, there is no end.” Go with humility. Go with wonder. Go together. The same Spirit who renewed you now sends you, to show the world the face of the invisible God in Jesus.

“…And I said, ‘Here am I; send me!’”Isaiah 6:8 (NRSVue)
“How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”Romans 10:15 (NRSVue)
A prayer before you go

God whom no eye has seen, Holy Spirit, set my heart on fire. Jesus, send me to the one You love. Father, make me Your witness today. Amen.

NRSVue © 2021 National Council of the Churches of Christ in the USA. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. Scripture quotations marked ESV are from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. ESV Text Edition: 2025. The ESV text may not be quoted in any publication made available to the public by a Creative Commons license. The ESV may not be translated in whole or in part into any other language. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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